Austin Scott Bergendorf

I started having contractions Friday morning. They weren't very hard but harder than just braxton hicks. The were also very irregular so I didn't know if I was even in labor. I was going to be spending the day in Pocatello at my sister, Ondrea's, state softball tournament so I decided to get all the hospital bags ready and the kids overnight bags ready just in case I was in labor. I continued to have irregular contractions throughout the day but nothing really changed. That night Scott and I went on a date to celebrate our 5th anniversary. (Happy anniversary Scott! I love you!) During the date the contractions started getting harder and closer together but still very irregular. Anywhere from 8 to 20 minutes apart. I figured I probably was in labor but still didn't want to get my hopes up. Plus... It was my anniversary tomorrow and I didn't really want baby coming on my anniversary.

After the date the contractions were hard enough that I wouldn't be able to sleep through them. We went to bed around 12:30 and while Scott slept, I continued laboring throughout the night. I was unfortunately only able to get about half an hour of broken up sleep through the night between contractions. I was able to stay very relaxed though the contractions up until 3 am. Right before that contraction I had dozed off and was awoken by a very painful contraction. At first I wasn't sure if the contraction itself was harder or if it just seemed harder because I wasn't able to get myself prepared for it before hand because I was sleeping. I soon discovered with the next couple contractions that the contractions themselves had become harder. I was having back labor again and it was after this that I could no longer relax through them and I had to apply counter pressure on my back for any kind of relief. And although the contractions themselves were harder, they were still very irregular and I wasn't sure how far along I actually was. I felt like it was still too early to wake up Scott because I felt like one of us should at least be a little rested so I decided at 6 I would wake him up and with each contraction I would push my hips in as hard as I could to try to provide myself with some relief.

I continued doing this until about 4:30 am when I started having some contractions right on top of each other. Every 2-3 minutes apart. It was at this point that I decided I would wait until 5 to wake Scott up. When I did wake Scott up, which wasn't easy by the way, I told him the contractions were starting to get pretty hard and I needed his help during them. I would have 3-4 contractions right on top of each other then they would be anywhere from 5-10 minutes apart again before I'd have another 3-4 on top of each other. I didn't know what to do because the contractions were still so irregular I didn't want to go to the hospital and only be dilated to a 4.... But I didn't want to have the baby in the car either. So as we were sitting contemplating on whether or not we should head to the hospital or get a bath started for me I had another stretch of contractions right on top of each other and during this stretch I felt like I needed to push. The decision was made. We were headed to the hospital.

We woke my parents up at 5:30, who were staying with us because of the softball tournament, and told them we were headed to the hospital right now. I had long since been having silent contractions and had to moan through each contraction. When my mom came into the room she was like... Um, ya. Time to go. So while Scott got everything packing into the car and got the car seats out I had slowly made it to the top of the stairs and my mom was helping me through contractions. My other two sister's, Clarissa and Shelyn, were also staying at my house and I had a pretty good audience while laboring. I was personally having a little freak out because every time I had a contraction I would feel the desire to push and I was pretty sure we had waiting too long and I would be having a baby in the car. Every time I would feel the desire to push I would just say over and over "oh crap, oh crap."

We finally got all loaded and ready to leave for the hospital at 5:50 am. Thankfully because it was so early we hit every green light and were both a little disappointed when there were no cops to try and pull us over while we raced to the hospital. I just really didn't want my water to break in the car. After arriving, there was a reception desk worker who arrived the same time and ran for a wheel chair. But because of back labor I really didn't want to sit anywhere. So I just waddle/speed walked between each contraction. We arrived in our room at 6:05 and the nurse casually directed us and told me to put on a robe. I'm pretty sure they were thinking I'm just a naive mom who thinks she's a lot further along then she really is. A couple minutes after arriving to the room my water broke so we hurried and got the robe on and beeped for the nurse. Again she casually comes in and asks me to get on the bed so she can check how far along I was. (Apparently she HAD to check before she called the midwife.) I just kept telling her that I felt like I needed to push and after a few more promptings from the nurse I finally got on the bed to be checked. It was kind of funny to see the nurses tradition from "This is a mom who thinks she's farther than she is" to "Oh wait... She is having the baby right now!" Before even getting checked another nurse ran to call the midwife and as I had suspected, I was fully dilated and effaced.

I told the nurse I didn't want to have the baby laying down so she helped transition me to hands and knees. Everything was happening so fast and all the while I just kept feeling like a needed to push. So after I was finally on my hands and knees I didn't hold back anymore and I just started pushing. Well let me tell you. Crowning was just as bad and painful as it was the first time around. I just kept telling myself, the faster you push the head out the faster the pain will be over. So I was giving it everything I had and Scott was encouraging me from the side of the bed. After a couple very loud screams I finally got the head out and afterwards had this overwhelming feeling to see the head. So I stopped pushing and I was trying to see around my stomach so I could see the head and apparently the nurses really didn't like that because they started sounding frantic and kept telling me to push. I tried telling them what I was trying to do but I don't think they heard me. The main nurse ended up turning to the nurse that was helping her and said, "She's not pushing" and the nurse yells at me, "Jacquelyn, you have to push!" So I gave up trying to see the head and started pushing again. After another big push, the shoulders came out and the rest of the body slid out after it. As soon as I saw the baby on the bed I looked to see that we had a boy. I was not surprised it was a boy. I had known it all along.

Austin Scott was born at 6:13 am. Weighing 7 lbs 15 oz and measuring 20.5 inches long. The first thing I remember noticing was the big scowl on his face. The midwife showed up about 10 minutes later and was able to deliver the placenta and stitch me up. I ended up taring worse than I did with Ida. I think because of how quickly everything happened (and maybe because of how determined I was to get the head out so the pain would be over.) :) The plus side of having the baby so quickly was that because I am high risk I have all these things I have to do like being monitored the whole time and getting an IV and sign a million consent forms and I didn't have time to do any of that! We are so excited to have Austin join our family! We already love him so much and are so excited to start this new adventure!

First family pic

39 Weeks

I had my 39 week appointment today and everything is looking great! I'm measuring right on and I was dilated to 1 cm and getting soft.... Whatever that means.... I really didn't care how much I was dilated or anything. The only reason I even got checked was to maybe help speed things along... :) I'm considering getting my membranes stripped at my next appointment but I haven't decided yet. We are getting so close and I'm just ready to cuddle this baby! 

Date: May 18, 2016

How far along? 39 Weeks

Total weight gain/loss: I am up 31 pounds... Almost 32 but not quite.. .:) So that brings my total to 165. According to the scale at my appointment today I was only up163.... Which like never happens! Usually its a lot higher than my scale.

Maternity clothes? All the sudden I just didn't have to wear them anymore!!! NOT! Getting big enough that even those maternity clothes make my belly hang out. Bring on X-L t-shirts and yoga pants!

Sleep: I've  been sleeping great and the kids have been sleeping great! Just trying to get it all in before I have an adorable little babe to cuddle on all night!!! :) So looking forward to sleeping in my bed again!

Movement: Movement I think has slowed down a bit this past week.... Thankfully... Usually when the babe does move it's either very uncomfortable or painful. 10 pm has become an everyday waking time. I don't mind the movements at all when they aren't painful! It's actually fun to try to figure out what body parts are sticking out here and there. Unfortunately that just doesn't happen very often.

Feeling sick? I've felt perfect this past week. Thank goodness for a pregnancy with very mild short lasting morning sickness!

Other pregnancy symptoms? This past week has been great! Besides my "normal" prego symptoms. Which have pretty much just become my normal life. I do think I have started to retain water a bit. Some nights my feet just feel really hot and swollen. Luckily it's just been here and there and not all the time. But I haven't really had heartburn or indigestion. My groin has been bothering me but I think it's mainly due to where the baby is positioned. It has settled quite low in my pelvis. We definitely know head is down! So I hope as soon as the baby is out my pain goes away. I've been going to the chiropractor and everything appears to be all lined up and ready for labor.

Have you started to show yet? I made it 2.95 kids without getting stretch marks! Then BAM! I get one at 39 weeks. I have had the micro stretch marks since I got prego with Jacob. But I didn't really consider those real stretch marks. But I finally got one. I am totally blaming it on my 5" cyst that is taking up so much room! It's making my stomach stretch to new lengths! This past week my stomach has been so itchy. I knew that it was getting stretched beyond what it had with Jacob or Ida. One week to go! We will see if I can go stretch mark free this last week.

Current 39 w

With Ida 39 w

Jacob 39 w

Gender prediction: Bought super cute take baby home outfits this past week! You have no idea how excited I am to meet this little baby and finally know what gender it is! I went to get per-registered at the hospital today and saw a new baby leaving and it just made me all the more excited! I just can not wait! I just want to cuddle this baby in my arms! I've had a couple dreams recently about having the baby and in both dreams baby was a girl... We will find out very soon!

38 Weeks

14 days people! We are down to 14 days! The other morning I woke up to Jacob wanting to cuddle with me in my bean bag. (This has become our morning ritual before Ida wakes up). And while I was cuddling him, taking in the moment, the realization that our lives would be changing very very soon hit me hard. I starting thinking of our lives now and our routines and how that was all about to change. I also thought of how small Ida still is. (It doesn't help that she really is so small.) Her life as the baby of the family was very short and in just a couple short weeks she isn't going to be my baby anymore and it made me a little sad that she was being forced to grow up so soon. I am really excited to meet the newest addition to our family. But for awhile I had to sit and mourn the loss of what we have right now.

At my 38 week appointment I am measuring right on and everything is getting in place to have this baby! Baby is still heads down, which is exactly where we want it! It is seriously getting so close. These next two weeks are going to fly by in no time!


Date: May 11, 2016

How far along? 38 Weeks

Total weight gain/loss: I am up 30 pounds. I am not complaining at all!

Maternity clothes? So excited to soon be out of maternity clothes! But then on to nursing clothes which I don't like much either.... 

Sleep: I've  been sleeping really well! I have to get up to pee anywhere from none to 3 times a night. But I always shoot for the none. Although I have been sleeping well it still seems like even when I get 7 hours of sleep I'm always so tired! But I don't dare take naps or go to bed earlier because I'm afraid I'll wake up around 3 or 4 and not be able to go back to sleep for a couple hours. So I'll just keep feeling tired all the time.

Movement: Movements have slowed down but still happen quite frequently. This is the first baby that I feel like the movements actually cause me pain. Especially when it likes to stretch its legs out and down the side of my uterus. I have to push back with my hand in order to keep the foot from coming out! JK. But I think the baby has started to drop so that is giving e a little more room. I think this baby is going to be extra strong because of how much it moves around pushing against my uterus. Occasionally the baby likes to mess with my cervix, lower back or pelvic bone but it isn't nearly as often as it was a couple weeks ago.

38 Weeks

Feeling sick? Just this past week there was about 5 days that I felt slightly nauseous all day. I'm not sure what caused it... But my appetite was pretty much gone as well. Nothing sounded good to eat. Thankfully I'm back to feeling good again and I haven't felt sick the past few days.

Other pregnancy symptoms? So I went from feeling so so awful a couple weeks ago to feeling really great my 37th week. I didn't really feel like I was having any symptoms at all. This past week hasn't been as great but still good. I feel like all the physical pain I was dealing with is gone. But I've had more heartburn and shortness of breath. I also tweaked my pelvic bone a week ago and that hasn't been feeling great but I went to the chiropractor today so hopefully that fixed it. Also for the past couple weeks I've been getting those nasty calf/foot cramps at night. For the most part I've been able to stop them by flexing quick enough. But they aren't fun. I'm also like soooo hot all the time! But overall I feel like I have been feeling really good!

Have you started to show yet? So a few weeks ago I noticed that I had a lump on the left side of my uterus that wasn't apart of my uterus. When I would have a contraction everything would harden but the lump on my left side would stay nice and squishy. I knew that my ovarian cyst was on that side but during my 20 week ultrasound it was still sitting around 6 to 7 cm. So I decided to bring it up with my midwife at my 37 week appointment. (Which I didn't even have to do because as soon as I lay on the table she was like "What that heck is that!") And we decided to schedule an ultrasound for today to check it out. Well I was right and it is my cyst although it's grown to over 13 cm now. For those who don't know that is about 5 inches. Ya... Big.... My midwife doesn't seem too concerned over it though and since it's not causing me any pain (just an extra pound of weight and more stretch marks) we aren't going to decide what we are going to do with it until after the baby is born. I was concerned maybe it would cause my uterus not to be lined up correctly when I go into labor and cause complications but she assured me that my uterus was a really strong muscle and when those contractions started it would move everything where it needed to be. So after the baby is born they are still hoping it will go away on its own. Maybe after the pregnancy hormones have cooled down in my body. If it doesn't there is an option to drain it or have it removed. But we shall see when that time comes! The ultrasound tech tried to get me a pic of the baby but its too low into my pelvic bone to really see it. Oh well... I guess we'll just have to wait another 2 weeks before we see he/she!

Here's a pic of the lump on my left side

Looking forward to: There are so many things I'm starting to look forward to! I'm really excited to be able to cuddle my kids comfortably without a huge ball between us. I'm excited to be able to get down on the ground and play with them. I'm excited to be able to cuddle with Scott and hug him and sleep in the same bed as him! I'm excited to be able to do the dishes without my back hurting because I have to stand so far away from the sink. I'm excited to start running again! We are so close!

Gender prediction: I am seriously so excited to finally know what gender I'm having! Even though Scott and I both think it's a boy I'm just looking forward to that moment when I push this baby out and I get to know. So excited! I got all the newborn clothes out and washed them today and they are ready for whichever this gender is! The crib is also ready and I'm feeling like I'm good to have this baby now! Although I do still want to wash the car seat.... Now I just need to pack a hospital bag and make a list of things not to forget on the big day!